Furious Spoon ramen in Chi-town, and my waitress is trans or enby. If I had one true regret in life, it’s that I didn’t start transition younger.
I put flying before transition, which I don’t regret... but they weren’t as mutually-exclusive as I had believed. I missed an opportunity to lead; a handful of other people had to do the hard work, take the hard hits, deal with all of the bureaucracy and bigotry to challenge the status quo, and I basically just waited until they did.
@dragoness I know that one really, really well. Wish I'd had started fifteen years ago
oh god same
Welcome to all who regard dragons well.